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Saturday, February 10, 2018

Blood and gore - All in a day's work.

Today morning there was great excitement in our household as Aditi lost her first tooth and then immediately after, the second one too. Bottom row. About two weeks ago, she noticed her tooth wiggle and has been shaking it non stop to make it fall. Lot of discussions have happened with her friends about their own experiences and ideas ranged from biting hard into an apple to pulling out the tooth using dental floss. The child who hates apples pestered me to buy one, but it didn't work. I am actually surprised it took so long for the tooth to fall out given the nonstop wiggling Aditi has done to it.

Since yesterday Aditi has been complaining that her wiggly tooth is hurting and when i checked it today morning i could see it was ready to fall off. I was scared she might swallow it when she eats her food, so i got a really soft paper tissue and shook the tooth this way and that and then tugged on it gently, lo the tooth was out. Out flowed a whole lot of blood and when just presssing on it did not stop it, Mr.Appa was called upon to bring ice. Big sister Nidhi akka was asked to close curtains as i like to believe the tooth is not to be shown to sky or else the new tooth would take a long time to sprout! :-) And before any of this happened i just said "it's out, it's out" in a soft voice and Santosh turned it into a war cry and Nidhi came running and we all started clapping for Aditi and she was so excited and wanted to run to the mirror to see how she looks. :-) Like i said, it was exciting. To put it mildly.

The newly removed tooth went into a tiny treasure box her teacher had given her specially for this purpose. And immediately after, i used the same procedure to pull out her second tooth. It was a bit of a relief for Aditi not to have wiggly teeth anymore. The second tooth brought forth more blood and  further pressure with tissue and ice was needed. Ultimately, we filled three tissues with blood. I had asked Aditi to close her eyes so she doesn't start panicking on seeing this whole lot of blood.

Santosh remarked how cool and calm i was being about pulling out the teeth and the bleeding that followed. I said that's what Moms do and blood is not something we are scared about. Then i asked Aditi to open her eyes and look at the tissues and not be scared of a little blood. There will be much more to see and bear in future. I have done the same with Nidhi and it has helped a lot that when she had her first period, although she was a bit scared, she did not freak out completely. There is so much more to come when we have a baby, etc. i try and teach my kids not to freak out, rather try and handle  the situation. Sounds a bit cold-blooded, but it helps when a child gets hurt and u might have to do first aid to control the bleeding. Or when u have ur first period. Or when u give birth.

Moms r strong and we want our kids to be strong too! Don't get fazed easily...




Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Like bacteria?

This happened abt 6 months ago....

Aditi was watching Krishna cartoon. Suddenly she came to find me,
Aditi : Amma, when Krishna's mom opened his mouth, she found the whole world in his mouth. Is that true?"
Me : yes, dear.
Aditi : What! Waa, waa, waa... I don't want to live in Krishna's mouth! I don't want to live in anybody's mouth! 

Boss Baby

Yesterday morning, aditi woke up and found me on the sofa engrossed in my phone. She came and sat next to me and leaned in on my hand and said softly "What happened to Good Morning and everything?"

Thursday, April 20, 2017

Elephants, Old Navy

Today morning, Aditi and i worked on a poster where ice age animals meet the jurassic animals. We worked on a woolly mammoth and i was explaining to her about elephants...
Me : u know, elephants r a matriarchial soceity. That means, the female elephant decides when they should eat, drink, take a bath, migrate, etc. sort of like leader of the family.
Aditi : oh, u mean, just like in our family!
:-))

Few months ago, Aditi told me she doesn't like to buy clothes from Old Navy. She said, "Why is it called Old Navy? Do they sell old clothes?"
:-))


Friday, April 1, 2016

Appa's all time fav

Yesterday I was applying oil on Nidhi's hair and she started singing in a soft voice, 'boroline, boroline'. I asked her what it was and she said it's something abt Appa and she even knows the song. I asked her to sing and she went with gusto - 'khushbudaar anti-septic cream boroline!' . She claimed she can sing it like Appa and proceeded with a loud voice - 'khushbudaar anti-septic cream boroline!'. it was hilarious and we promptly sang it to Appa the minute he came home from office.

Today morning I dropped Nidhi off to school and she tells me I drive 'faster, but calmer' than Appa. :-))

Rambles that pass as posts on this blog. But such is life...  :-)

Thursday, March 31, 2016

A good morning

Today morning, Aditi surprised me by getting ready for school while I was making breakfast. I finished cooking and turned around, lo - Aditi has selected and worn a dress, applied cream-powder-pottu and said 'surprise!'. Thanks to her I had a 10-min leisure which I used up in the reading 'hot-hot' news as soon as the newspaper was delivered at the door. A very good morning indeed...

Nidhi and I r the same for one thing - both of us can never get enuf holidays in life. Past two days she had her Math and Eng exam and today she did her best to get a holiday. But no chance...

I went to get my car washed. when it was done the guy called out to me saying 'Sasha' and looked sheepish as if he knew something was wrong. I had to lol :-)) S-a-n-t-o-s-h... I even spelled it from him when I entered the place. Either he can't write or he can't read... Yet another fellow who can't pronounce Indian names. That's y I never give out my real name - get very irritated when someone kills it. the worst ones r the ones who give up - 'I am not even going to try and say it!' I always think "well done with the loser's attitude!"

And, all this rambling just to get into the spirit of writing... Need to blog more often. Even though today I don't have anything special to say, this is just to start writing more and also to remind me of a simple thing - what a good morning it was! And all because I got to read the newspaper in the morning...:-)

Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Advantages of having a Big Sister

Nidhi and Aditi are about to have dinner. Both have taken their plates and are walking back to a cartoon in which a man is crying.

Aditi : Look, he is crying. How is that possible? How can a Man cry?
Nidhi : why is that not possible? Even Men cry. They try to act tough, but men can cry too.

Ha... That's a good lesson for u, Little Aditi. Courtesy : Nidhi-akka.